Whenever I see this forum. And the name living childless. Its just enough to make me feel that I belong to here. This has no worth to ask for sympathies to the world we live in. And the reason is that they have their families. So here I come when I feel so lonely in this world. I have no idea where my journey would go. There was a time when I had no idea what to do with the life. But then I came over such forums. And met some really beautiful souls. That was ready to welcome me and guide me with there all heart. Each day I came up here I try to make everyone feel better. And I guess that's what everyone should do.
Post by makiharukawa on Jun 29, 2018 0:13:55 GMT -5
Hey Ezabel. Thanks for posting this. It's really touching to hear how you feel about this community. I agree with you that there definitely are alot of people who find comfort after they come to this forum section seeking help. Being childless is truly horrible to go through. My only advice to these people would be to look up for alternatives. I can't imagine anyone going through with their life without a child. Thankfully due to technology there are many other ways to have a child, namely IVF and surrogacy among other things. Good luck in the meanwhile to all the couples. Hope you are able to find happiness again. I will continue to support everyone on their journey.
Hey Ezabel, How are you? Hope you are good. I have read your post. And it makes me cry. I am very sorry for your condition. I know it is the very difficult situation. And especially for a mother. But I really want to say you something. You have to be strong at this time. Please don't you worry dear. This is not final that you can not have a child. You will be a mother soon. But first of all, you should think positively. And then visit the best clinic as well. Discuss all the matter with the doctor. Also, search about IVF and surrogacy. I think IVF is the good solution for you. Wish you good luck.
Hey dear, I have read your post. I am wondering that why you are living childless. There are many solutions to the infertility problem. You don't need to worry about this problem. There are introduced IVF and also surrogacy. You just have to research them. And if you don't want them too. Then also an option of adoption. You must think about that. It will be good for you. But I will suggest you try IVF so that you will be blessed soon. There are many couples who are now parents of more than one children through IVF. So you should think about it. As soon as possible you should go to the best clinic. And must start treatment soon. I am very hopeful for you. You should just be confident. Stay happy. Good luck.
Sorry to hear what you are going through. No one can understand your pain unless that person is childless. I hope the future brings happiness to you. Yes, these forums do feel like family. It feels as if you are not alone anymore. There are too many people going through same situations. Going through the same pain. Feeling whatever you feel. I am glad such forums exist. You are also right about helping others. I think we humans live in the world together. We need to take care of each other. Although we may not know each other. I would recommend you to check your fertility issues. Talk to your doctors. If they agree, then think about IVF or surrogacy.
Hi ezabel, hope you are enjoying good health. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us. I am glad i found this post. It gives me courage. I am an infertile. I am facing it from last 5 years. The reason of my infertility is heart problem. I want to be a mother by all means. My husband and i am looking for surrogacy clinics. previously we contacted Lotus clinic. That was the worst decision of our life. We wasted our precious time. We don't know whom to trust. Lotus clinic is a scam. They want to loot people. I will be very thankful to you if you recommend a god clinic to us.
Oh dear. You don't have to feel that way. No one is childless. You cannot just give up yet. Have you tried surrogacy? Or adoption? Please look for them. Everybody's got hope for them. You can not let your chance slip away.
Dear. How are you? Hope you are alright. Hope you are at your best. There is no need to feel alone. We are all in this together. It happens to the best of us. Living in dark places won't find you an escape. You need to learn from stories here. You need to learn from women who fight. From those who make the correct decisions For themselves. They don't sulk all day in bed. Rather gather strength and find their solutions. Do something for yourself so you won't regret it later. You will know that at least you tried. Prayers for you girl.
Hi Izabel! How are you doing? I really appreciate your thinking. You are right no one can get your pain other than the one going through it. Here you v=can share all your problems. We are here to give support to each other. We are each others strength. Infertility drives us to our low self. It just sucks all our positivity. But this is not the end. We have many other options we can go for. IVF is one of the best. Science is very advanced. So don't lose hope ladies. Everythings need some struggle. This is worth struggling. Lots of love for you all. Take care.
Hello. Hope you are doing well. I am really happy to read your post. I wish it gives everyone hope and courage. I also believe hope and out struggle can make the impossible possible. This forum is there to help and support those who are facing hard times. I wish you all good luck!
Aww, that's such a great post. You are doing a wonderful job by sharing such information on this post. I am really thankful to you for that. Dear life becomes miserable without a child. I am not the one who suffers from it. It was my aunt. She was infertile. Then she was being TTC for years. It was really a long time with a lot of patience. I can remember those times when she was TTC. It was hard to see her smiling. Then I have researched a lot about the best clinics in Europe. I have suggested her a good clinic in Europe. She moved there and had her surrogacy from them. It was successful and she had twins through surrogacy. I can't describe how happy she was. So if you are having a tough time in your life then never lose hope. There will be a good time also for you in the future.
It is really very hard living with the grief of being childless. It becomes difficult to control the tears. Such stories are awful. They are emotional and heart touching. After reading about your grief I was compelled to write something special for you. I want you to change your life. I want to make your search for happiness easier. I want that next time when you come back to the forum you come with some great noise. There is a good news for you dear. One of the most renowned and reliable clinics in the Ukraine region names BioTex is coming to London. They will there for 18th and 19th August. They will provide all the information through the head of the English department \anastasia. The visitors will learn about the clinic and their essential services. Just keep in mind there are just limited seats. If you want something great just get hold of this opportunity by writing the email to the clinic. I wish that this event brings the real change in your life.
hey, there ezabel! I hope you are doing great. I am so happy that you are here. your post made me emotional. it is true that we find help through these forums. and people give their best advice. it warms my heart. and it is truly amazing. surrogacy is an amazing method. a method used to solve the infiertility issue, it is a way to bring your baby into the world and it is beautiful. a friend of mine got her surrogacy from a clinic in Ukraine. [DELETED], they are coming to the UK on 18-19 August. it is an amazing opportunity for everyone to come and get a consultation about their facilities, methods, and procedure, and you can also sign your contact there, the seats are limited. so email them on this address surrogacy@[DELETED].com and book your place
Hello there. I'm happily married. I'm Infertile. Then, I'm very sad at that time but, my husband can support me. Then, my friend told me about the Adonis clinic. Then, I go to Adonis clinic next day. The peoples of their staff is very bad and unfriendly. They cannot pay attention to my problem and cann't check up properly. The structure and the apartments of the clinic is also very old fashioned. Some of patients are slept in one rooms, and can spent all the night in one room very badly. Their nurses can treat badly to their patients. Adonis clinic is very unpleasent to their persons. They cannot wash their hands after visit the some patients. I said to all my friends that cannot visit this clinic. Good luck.
Hey, i hope you are doing well. I agree with you. But sweetheart why living childless when we have procedure like surrogacy. Yes there are other procedures too. But i personally prefer surrogacy cause it is safer like normal pregnancy. You should try surrogacy. I am visiting a clinic in ukraine named [DELETED] for my surrogacy. It is one of the best clinic of europe. The procedures are so reasonable and reliable. The doctors are so experienced. the hospital's environment is so calm. I feel so peaceful and satisfied wherever i get in there. I am soon going to start my procedure. You just visit them. In fact there is an event on 18-19 august in Uk. This is clinic is going to Organise it. All their experienced staff along with Head is going to visit. you must visit them there before flying to ukraine. at least visit them once. things will work out for sure.
Dear, I felt very sorry for you. I also had a very bad experience with a clinic in Ukraine lotus. I have also seen many bad reviews about this clinic on different forums. People are very dissatisfied with their behavior. They behave very rudely with many people. In some case, they don’t give any response to anyone. I don’t understand why they are doing this. It really doesn’t mean you should lose hope. There is a good clinic in Eastern Europe. They are best in dealing with all the fertility issues. I will recommend you to start your treatment from them. It will be suitable for you. Trust me once you opt it you won’t regret your decision. Wish you best of luck for that.
I know its very situation for you. I can feel your pain. We see many women around us with their children. That was the difficult condition. But you have to be strong. No doubt, infertility is hard to face. My friend also an infertile. She was also childless. Then she contacts Lotus for her treatment. She sends them a lot of emails. But they did not reply any single email. She lost hope towards life. Because of their unprofessional behaviour. I forced her to grow up again. Now she is under treatment in Europe. I wish every hardship of her will die soon. I also suggest you move to another good fertility clinic. That will help you to become a mother soon.
Hey dear. I love to see your post. It is so motivating. I agree with you. There are a lot of people here who can feel your pain. They give sincere advice to all. I love to be a part of this forum. I always give one advice to everybody. Instead to TTC for long period. Go for alternate ways. They will help you. And through this, you will get your biological child. So no need to be afraid of it. Personally, I am n the favour of surrogacy. Because IVF has fewer chances of success. And it is not much safe as well. As I am a mother of the surrogate child. I am much satisfied with my choice. But there are few clinics who are spammers. Everybody must be aware of Adonis clinic. They just play with the feelings. And most cases came up with the money fraud as well.
Post by tawneekevinson on Aug 12, 2018 10:43:30 GMT -5
Hi there, I hope everybody's doing great.
It's really lonely to live a life without what you can call your own child, especially if you have been dreaming about it all your life, and when insensitive people have the nerves to ask why. But don't let your being childless dictate your happiness. Don't focus on the pain and don't miss out on your life's meaning. Many children are hungry for the love you can show and share with them. It can be the child within the neighborhood, a niece or nephew, a child of a friend.
Where your love can't hide And then go stealing Through the summer nights With your lover Just let your love flow Like a mountain stream And let your love grow With the smallest of dreams And let your love show And you'll know what I mean It's the season Let your love fly Like a bird on the wing And let your love bind you To all living things And let your love shine And you'll know what I mean
Post by jessicasharman31 on Aug 12, 2018 14:52:17 GMT -5
Hi dear. I can understand the pain you have been through. But, dear never lose hope. Life has many hardships. We must face them with the bright smile. You must go for surrogacy or any other alternative. My friend also had fertility issues. She couldn’t conceive. The couple decided to visit this clinic named [DELETED]. I must tell you, they received an overwhelming response. Today, she is a mother of a young baby boy. The doctors offer quite remarkable services. The packages are quite unique. I hope you don’t get disappointed. And one more thing for you that if you could go to this event that [DELETED] is arranging very soon. I believe you would really like that experience too. All the very best. Hope you get a good news soon. Sending lots of love!
Life is nothing without a child. Living childless is so difficult for the couples. I wish no one remains infertile. Dear your post is really very touching. I can feel how difficult it will be for you. I was also suffering from infertility. I tried to contact lotus clinic. They didn't give me a very good response. I never lose hope. I have heard that this clinic is very bad for infertility treatment. Then I moved to Europe. There I found a very good clinic. They recommended my surrogacy. It was successful and I am a mother now. I wish you become a mother soon. Baby dust to you
Omg! I felt so emotional to read this. I know infertility is not at all easy to deal with. You really need to be courageous for this. And, I appreciate the fact that you really are. Dealing with all this with a positive approach is impressive. One must remain hopeful if they select the right clinic. I myself have gone through this. There are many alternatives now. You just need to find an effective team and an efficient clinic. I visited [DELETED] clinic. they help you to become a parent and also enjoy the journey of motherhood. I now have a healthy baby boy via IVF. Just beware of scammers. Some clinics are not professional at all. Don't waste your time with the clinic Lotus. It is advice for everyone. I wish a good luck to all those going through this.
Post by Glenna Johnson on Aug 13, 2018 11:47:02 GMT -5
Living an infertile life is really very miserable. I can feel your pain for going through infertility. This is not your fault my dear. Infertility nowadays has a solution. Don't worry my dear, things will get better for you. Yesterday I came to know that [DELETED] clinic is arranging an event for infertile couples. They will give free consultation to an infertile couple. I think you should take a look at this event on their website. It will help you.
Post by Eric Watson on Aug 13, 2018 12:09:12 GMT -5
Hey Ezabela! I can understand how it feels. One of my friends is also being through this situation. I really feel so sad for her. She had a very worse experience with a clinic of Lotus. She was facing infertility due to PCOS. She went to the clinic for IVF but she had two failed IVF cycles there. Later she returned hopelessly and devasted his life. According to her, the clinic staff is so irresponsible and uneducated. And the staff behavior toward their patients is so rude and immoral. So be aware of such unskilled clinics. Always choose the well-reputed clinic. I hope it will be a good option for you.
Hi Ezabel. How are you? My dear, I am really feeling very sorry for what you are going through. It is really very difficult to face this situation. My dear, don't lose hope things will definitely work for you. Just be patient. One of my friends told me that the clinic([DELETED]) where she had a surrogacy treatment is soon going to organise an event for the infertile couple. I think you should keep this in your mind. And start preparing yourself for the infertility treatment.
I'm also a daily visitor of this site. Your post is so inspiring. A lot of couples are victimized by infertility and it's so hard to overcome. It requires a lot of struggle to get rid of it. I would also like to share my experience with you which I had while fighting against infertility. I'm heart patient and due to this facing infertility. I went to a Lotus clinic for surrogacy because there is no other option left for me. I had so bad experience there. All the staff even the doctors behave so immorally and rudely. They have no interest in someone's life. Even when I was there, I never heard any successful procedure there. So I would like to aware you all, whenever you try to avail of such techniques always choose the well-reputed clinic. Clinic has a great influence on the success rates.
Dear Ezabel, how are you. You sound very much pessimistic. Don’t lose hope. There is always a dawn after a dusk. Everything will be fine. Stay calm. Have faith in God. He is the best planner. I have a good news for you. You can take yourself out of this absurdity. An event is going to held very soon. Register yourself now as the seats are very limited. Anastasia from the English department is also the member of this delegation. You have a pleasant opportunity to meet the best infertility doctors. Plus you can consult with the doctors there. There is also a chance to sign a contract with them.
I would like to suggest that if you want to have something good don't waste more time. It is not good to keep crying. I would rather recommend that you try some fertility clinic. They have excellent treatments for people like you. Why don't you go to Ukraine. There is an excllent clinic operating there. I think it would be really a great place for resolving your problems.
Everything that you have said about living childless is so true. However, i advise infertile people to keep trying. I advise you all to never lose hope. I saved so much money for treatments. It was a hard time for me and my husband. However, i must say that it was worth it. I would advise every barren man and woman out there to not to think that is your fault, You are going through a test of life. Keep living your life but also keep trying those infertility treatments. Never go for a clinic without at least researching on it for a week. This is about your health and wealth and you have a responsibility towards both. if you find anything sketchy then leave the clinic right away. Keep reading reviews about clinics all the time. Hope this journey rewards you.
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