I found out my baby's heart stopped at 15 weeks again. This is the second time I've had a 2nd trimester loss in 6 months. My doctors are taking it seriously and doing all sorts of tests but I'm angry they didn't do it last time. Why did I have to lose 2 babies?
I go in today to get my cervix started dialating and softened then return tomorrow for a D&E. I chose that over delivery.
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I'm so very sorry for your loss(es). I'm glad they're taking it seriously and will start tests, but can so imagine your anger, saddness and frustration about loosing two babies. I hope the D&E will go well tomorrow, good luck. *hugs*
Post by teenybenoit on Jun 2, 2015 21:10:04 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can understand your frustration. I have just had my 3rd mc, though all in the first tri, I also could not understand why they had to "wait" for a 3rd before they investigate further, it feels really unfair. One day at a time and it's ok to feel all the feelings that come your way. Please feel free to pm me if you need to vent or want support. (((Big Hugs)))
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Post by PiradicalMaid on Jun 4, 2015 10:47:19 GMT -5
verypunny I hope everything went well yesterday. I am so sorry for your losses. I think it is nothing short of cruel that providers/insurance companies/whoever make you wait until they do testing. I understand that loss is common, but it is also a heartbreaking, horrible ordeal that no one should have to go through unnecessarily.
I am so so sorry this is happening to you again. We are here for you.
I'm so sorry for your loss. It is frustrating that they wouldn't do any testing for you the first time. I can understand early mc, since they happen fairly often, but after 15 weeks? I hope you get some answers.
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