Is it okay if I come play over here? I wasn't sure because I was inactive for about a month, but I think I fall into the "I know you guys and you know me" category. But let me know if I should wait longer.
I've been part of CAL since my second loss, but today (CD1, oh joy) marks the start of our 7th month of actively trying. It's been hard to see so many people graduate. Passing the year and a half mark last month was rough. I hate feeling jealous of others who graduate more quickly, but it happens. Hoping this board will feel a bit safer during these hard days.
Welcome lady! Milestones are hard. I've recently made the move over to this side of the board myself and I do feel more at ease here. I love the ladies at the main board but at some point I found myself lurking more then actively participating. Which is when I decided to come take a peak here. *hugs*
Hey tuckaboo - welcome. I'm so sorry you're here as well. It's been hard seeing ladies graduate from CAL but it's been so tough for me to see them move on to PAL from CAR (aka have their rainbows). Hang in there, I'm glad there's a 6+ board...esp. on tough days.
Post by sarcaztic10 on Nov 10, 2015 10:36:09 GMT -5
crimpgirl, agpjt413, I am in the same boat with you. I love our grads but knowing that I have been CAL and many have gone on to PGAL and then graduated and in a couple of cases gone back to PGAL and graduated a second time while I am still struggling is so hard. (((hugs))) to you both.
tuckaboo, Welcome, this is a great place to get away from the main board because we totally get the struggle. Sending you lots of (((Hugs))
Thanks, ladies. I really appreciate that this place exists. I've been hanging out on 3T/IF a lot more than CAL these days because that's where most people have been trying at least as long as I have, but sometimes it's hard to have to flag loss issues since they are so heavily interwoven into my larger TTC/IF struggles.
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